Loving in Conflict
Proverbs 16-18; Romans 12 “Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my friends…Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” Romans 12:17-19, 21 How we behave in conflict reveals our character and capacity to lead and serve in divergent settings. Differences of perspective, vision, and strategy are normal, especially with high-capacity leaders on teams. How we treat one another in those situations either advances the kingdom of God or erodes trust. It is this capacity to work through conflict which is the ‘glass ceiling’ for many ministry leaders. Paul’s call is to “take care…do what is right…and live at peace” while we work through our differences. When paths separate do not make it personal, do not hurt one another, and do not let the evil of bitterness, unforgiveness, or pride overcome us. Rather, live like over...